Rosenau, Southlea Road, Datchet (from Datchet History website)

James ‘Neil’ Grant McGrigor was born on 16 November 1894, the second of four children born to a wealthy banker, Captain Sir James Rhoderic Duff McGrigor, and his American wife, Lady Helen. The couple had married in 1890 and lived at 29 Sloane Gardens, Chelsea London. They also had a home in Datchet, at Rosenau, a 30-room riverside property in Southlea Road, (on the site now occupied by Woolacombe). They were there on the night of the 1911 census with a butler, footman, cook, kitchen maid, domestic nurse and two housemaids.

The McGrigor family

Lady Helen, born Helen Cornell Meiggs, was an American from Brooklyn, New York. She was the daughter of John Gilbert Meiggs, a railway contractor. He and his brother Henry built the Oraya Railroad in Peru and he also built several important railroads in Argentina.

Sir James came from a military family. His grandfather was Sir James McGrigor, Bart, KCB, MD, a military surgeon and, for 36 years, director-general of the Royal Army Medical Department. The McGrigor baronetcy, of Campden Hill, Middlesex, was created for him in 1831.

Sir James’s father was Sir Charles Rhoderic McGrigor, 2nd Baronet, born 1811. He was educated at Eton and married Elizabeth Anne Nickle, the daughter of another military man, Major General Sir R Nickle K.H.

Child scalded 1909
Slough, Eton & Windsor Observer, 3 July 1909

Sir James himself was also educated at Eton and then at Christchurch, Oxford. He joined the 85th Light Infantry, was transferred to the Rifle Brigade in 1878, and retired with the rank of Captain in 1890 when he succeeded his father as 3rd Baronet. He worked as an army agent and banker. (His nephew, Sir Rhoderick McGrigor, born 1893, became Admiral of the Fleet, and fought in WWI at Gallipoli and the Battle of Jutland. In WWI he took part in the sinking of the Bismarck and became First Sea Lord in the early 1950s.)

So, it was perhaps no surprise that Sir James’s sons, Charles Colquhoun McGrigor, born 1893, and James Neil Grant McGrigor joined the military.

Charles was admitted to the Royal Military College Sandhurst in 1911 and commissioned in 1912. He became a Lieutenant-Colonel in the Rifle Brigade, and Officer O.B.E. in 1921. (For some reason, Charles does not appear on the Datchet Roll of Honour.)

‘Neil’ (as James was often known, to differentiate him from his father) was educated at Evelyn’s, Hillingdon; then Eton (where he won the Junior Sculling race in 1912). He also went to Sandhurst and was gazetted to the Gordon Highlanders in August, 1914.

Charles and Neil had two sisters. Jean Helen was born in 1902 in Hillingdon (Sir James was on the electoral register at Parkfield, Hillingdon, that year). Dona Mary was born in 1908 in Chelsea. Dona died as a baby in a tragic accident. She was scalded in a bath tub in 1909 when her nurse left her alone in the nursery. Her death was reported in the Slough, Eton & Windsor Observer, on 3 July 1909, above right.



Life at Rosenau 1910
Entertainment at Rosenau, July 1910
Slough Eton and Windsor Observer, 23 July 1910

In summer 1910, the Slough Eton and Windsor Observer published a report, right, about a party held by the McGrigors at Rosenau especially for non-commissioned officers of the Second Scots Guards with their wives and families. There were swing boats, coconut shies, cricket and cigarettes for the ‘Tommy Atkins’ (or Tommies, ie soldiers)


The Gordon Highlanders

Neil was gazetted to the Gordon Highlanders in August 1914 as a 2nd Lieutenant in the 1st Battalion. The regular force battalions (1st and 2nd Gordons) had been immediately assigned to the British Expeditionary Force on the outbreak of war. The 1st Gordons were assigned to 8 Brigade, 3rd Division. They were stationed at Plymouth in August 1914, mobilised for war later that month, and landed at Boulogne.

In 2014, there was a WWI exhibition at the Gordon Highlanders Museum. Jesper Ericsson, curator of the Museum explained: “The Gordons were among the first to travel to France and Flanders after the outbreak of hostilities in August 1914, and were involved in all the major actions that summer and autumn, culminating at the end of the year in the Christmas Truce. The mobile fighting of the first few battles dissolved into stagnant trench warfare that became the mark of the conflict for the years ahead. Any hopes that the war would be over by Christmas were shattered by the grim realities of modern warfare.”

Heavy losses sustained

Due to heavy losses after the Battle of Le Cateau, the 1st Battalion moved to Army Troops. At the end September, they returned to the 8th Brigade of the 3rd Division and were once again engaged in various actions on the Western Front. There is a post on the Great War Forum where a contributor has cited Cyril Fall’s Life of a Regiment, explaining that, on 12 October, the 1st Gordons were ordered to take the bridge over the Lawe river at Fosse. It took a considerable effort and the involvement of other battalions to take the bridge and continue the advance over the next couple of days. By 15 October the battalion was at the La Bassée-Estaires road. On 20 October, the 1st was sent to hold Grand Riez. The following day the 3rd Division, which made up the left wing of II Corps, was attacked by a strong enemy force. The Division was somewhat exposed by this counter attack and gave some ground along the La Basse Canal (east of Neuve Chapelle to Fauquissart), retiring to hastily prepared positions. There were German attacks again on the night of 23 October and on 24 October.

It was while repelling one of these German attacks that Neil was wounded. The post from the Great War Forum explained: “The 1st Gordons were on the left of the 8th Brigade, about 400 yards from the 15th Sikhs of the Jullundur Brigade. The wire which was promised to help fill this gap did not appear. Determined German attacks broke through the right-hand Gordons Company and despite reinforcement from the reserve company, the Germans continued to press the right of the battalion back to the orchards of Fauquissart on the main Neuve-Chapelle to Armentieres Road. Two companies of the 4th Middlesex then arrived and a counter-attack was launched by this combined force which regained the positions from which they had been expelled.” The 1st Battalion Gordon Highlanders casualties for the period were: 7 officers (5 listed as missing); and 197 other ranks (163 listed as missing).

Neil was shot through the lung and shoulder on 24 October 1914, near Fauquissart, Northern France.

Returned to the UK

Neil was brought back to England. He died of his wounds at 59 Cadogan Square on 7 November 1914, just over three months after the start of the war (28 July), and 9 days before his 20th birthday. His death was listed in the Roll of Honour in the Windsor & Eton Express on 14 November 1914: “McGrigor, James Neil Grant, Second Lieutenant, 1st Batt Gordon Highlanders, younger son of Captain Sir James and Lady McGrigor of Rosenau, Datchet. Died on November 7th at 59 Cadogan-Square, of wounds received in action on October 24th, aged 19. He got his commission in August last.”

McGrigor, Datchet Parish magazine
Datchet Parish Magazine, December 1914

Datchet Parish magazine also reported: “Very deep sympathy has been felt and shown to Sir James and Lady McGrigor, on the death of their son, Lieut. McGrigor, as the result of wounds received in battle. At their express request his funeral was a very quiet one, on Tuesday, November 12th, at the cemetery.”



Cadogan Square

59 Cadogan SquareBoth the Roll of Honour and Neil’s probate documents refer to 59 Cadogan Square, pictured left. This very large house was occupied by a widow, Mrs Halkett, 47, born in Gibraltar. It was close to the Lady Mountgarret Hospital for wounded officers, at 18 Cadogan Gardens, which opened in November 1914 and was affiliated to Queen Alexandra’s Military Hospital. Many people were offering rooms in their homes to be used as hospital rooms by a St John detachment; one guess might be that Mrs Halkett had done the same.






Neil is also remembered in The Bond of Sacrifice, a biographical record of all officers who fell in the Great War.


Buried in DatchetMcGrigor Medal Records
McGrigor grave Datchet
Neil’s grave in Datchet Cemetery

Neil was buried alongside his sister Dona in Datchet. He was awarded the British War Medal and Victory Medal, and 1914 Star. (See Medal cards, right. Click on the image for a larger version.)

Ten years later, Sir James died from heart failure at Kings Ride House in Camberley at the age of 66. The Baronetcy passed to his son Charles who had married Annabel Somers Cocks in 1919. Sir James’s funeral took place at Datchet Cemetery on 8 February 1924. According to the newspaper report, the boys of Datchet Parish Church sang the hymn “Fight the Good Fight” with Lady Mabel Cholmondeley (of The Lawn) presiding at the organ. (At the time of writing, 2016, Charles’s grandson, Sir James Angus Rhoderick McGrigor, 6th Baronet, was a Conservative MSP for the Highlands and Islands.)